This is such a commonly asked question that I thought I would answer it succinctly here with another question:
Do guys find a woman dressed beautifully and writhing gracefully around a pole attractive? The answer is most probably "Yes" (unless he is gay or blind, or both). But that's not the point of doing the classes. I think the main misconception is that women who pole dance are going to undress, which is NOT the case. (Sorry guys - pole dancers do it for fitness, not for you). In fact it is the opposite... Most men who are married to pole dancers are what I call "Pole Husbands". These are the male version of "Footballers' Wives", and will sadly probably never see their wives again (because they are in the studio and on YouTube, obsessing over the latest tricks). The few unsuspecting husbands who have bought their wives a voucher for classes, and / or a pole, may have realised (too late) that it wasn't going to benefit them in the way they hoped. On the plus side, they will have very happy wives (or girlfriends), who love their new-found confidence and bodies. And if their wife enters a competition, he may even get the opportunity to watch her perform - dressed beautifully and writhing around the pole - and he will proudly tell everyone that he is her husband!
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AuthorNatasha Williams is the pioneer of pole dancing in South Africa. She has been teaching pole dancing and sensual fitness since 2003. She has empowered thousands of women through dance, as well as written Instructional books and DVDs on pole dancing. ArchivesCategories |